Your Authentic Self.
Your Authentic Life.
Life coaching for explorers, leaders, and the curious.
Your Relationships
Who are your people?
Our relationships create a system: Our system. One affects the others. Do you have the a network of relationships that help you and yours grow?
Non-Monogamy & Polyamory
Are you a one-person person?
How can you explore emotional, romantic & sexual relationships on your own terms?
Identity
Are you… you?
Identity is your alignment and integrity within yourself. Gender, sexuality, career, your values & essence… all vs baseless self-doubt. Who are you?
Neurodivergents
Are you neurodivergent?
Neurotypical approaches often don’t work for neurodivergent clients. We need tools and paths that work for us.
Parenting
Are you showing the kids your best?
Parents, step-parents, leaders, mentors, and role models. It takes a village – are you in it on your terms?
Life & Money
Are you rocking the day-to-day?
Personal Finances, nutrition, getting outside, resting and staying regulated. How are you handling the day-to-day?
Neurodivergent
Neuroaffirmative Coaching
I am autistic. I have ADHD. The kids call that AuDHD these days. I aim for a neuroaffirmative approach to clients, meaning that I strive to be accepting and directly supportive of neurodivergent experiences.
I am neurodivergent, I am a parent to neurodivergent twins, and I don’t think I’ve ever had a partner who wasn’t neurodivergent.
Thoughtful connection, acceptance, and working with clients to create neuroaffirming plans, tactics, and strategies, each matter to me immensely.
If you are neurodivergent, I am here for you.
Non-Monogamy
Polyamory? ENM?
Non-monogamy comes in so many different forms with a lot of language. ENM. CNM. FWB. Kink. Polyamory.
It all starts with a commitment to yourself to honour yourself and your relationships. My own commitment is to participate in crafting each relationship so that it supports the growth and wellbeing of everyone involved.
This flies in the face of many established norms such as the nuclear family, coupledom, finding “the one,” and our internalized misogyny.
Whether you are new to your non-monogamous journey or experienced and seeking support, I am happy to support what’s next for you.
Queer
Queering Things Up
Being out as queer is a new-to-me identity and it’s very important to me. In 2024, it really landed for me that the acceptance of queerness is vital to a productive, progressive, equitable future for everyone. If power structures are not able to accept 2SLGBTQIA+ folks, we aren’t truly free. Queering gender, sexuality, and relationships are all natural ways of being that should be accepted.
I am not cis-gender and have known that as far back as I can remember. In summer 2024. I started hormone replacement therapy and it has been a dream. I don’t know where it’s going, but I feel closer to my own vision of me than I ever imagined I could be. It’sFor myself, it’s not about pursuit of a different gender – it’s about an internal peace that hasn’t been achieved any other way.
I am extremely motivated to support the queer community.
Men
Men Get Sold a Lot of BS
Men get sold a lot of bullshit. I did. There are billions of men in the world and there is absolutely no one way to be a man. Men are sold the idea of the masculine, the idea of being strong, the idea of providing. Those things are not required to live a full life.
A second pile of crap men are sold is that men can and should be open and vulnerable. I suspect loved ones and well-meaning folks are genuine in inviting this, but the truth is that our communities are rarely ready for men to be open. Openness requires vulnerability, trust, and space to get messy. Men aren’t often afforded that.
I don’t offer ”polarity”‘ coaching that focuses on how “men do x and women do y.” What I offer is supporting you in discovering your path to your own sense of masculinity and manhood.
Parents
Joys & Challenges
Parenting is the joy of my life and my agenda is for other parents, step-parents, and mentors for young people to feel similarly.
By tapping into our leadership, we can bring our best selves, instead of our survival selves, for the young people who need that now. We all need our best selves in the world, and young folks deserve to learn what that’s about by us modelling it directly.
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